Wednesday, June 19, 2013


A law of the universe is that as time passes people change.  Our interests, our desires, even our needs  change with us. In some cases we  change as a group growing closer and in others we change independently and grow apart.

I am sad to say that this blog has come to an end and so has the trouple that wrote it.  We had been a strong V relationship, that over time grew into a triangle, and then again back into a V.  Then over the last few weeks things have changed between Naivara and I.

I've felt the difference creeping on slowly between us.  Perhaps had I spoken up right away things might have gone differently but I didn't.   I could go in to more details about the events and the decisions that lead up to this but I don't think that the really matter or are anyone's business but our own.  In the end what matters is that we are no longer a trouple.  We are all still friends, just not in a relationship anymore.

  So with that said we are ending this blog.   Thank you to everyone who took the time to read the blog and commented either here, in person, or by messaging us on Fetlife.

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Returning to the Ball

After almost 2 years away our trouple has returned to the Ball.  I know you've now had three posts in a row about the Ball, but it has been a big deal around our household the last couple of weeks.  So that means it is what is on our minds when we sit down to do things like blog.

So in case you don't know what the Ball is here is a quick rundown, if you already know skip this paragraph.   The Ball is Winnipeg's longest running and largest fetish event, I think it might also be the longest continuous one in Canada as well but I'm not sure.  Dress code is fetish wear, no fetish wear pay the gawkers surcharge an extra $40 on top of the ticket price.  I was heading out to keep tamale company while she smoked and I watched four guys at the door debate amongst themselves about paying the fee just to go in.  I'm not sure if they heading in our not in the end, but they were seriously considering it.

So we got there wandered around for a couple of minutes visiting with some friends both new and old.  One of the great things throughout the evening was watching how people who we knew had met at our place interacted and how their friendships had blossomed.    We browsed a few of the merchant tables but nothing was purchased, but it did generate a few fun ideas and hopefully some upcoming DIY projects.

In the dungeon things started off slow as they often do.  One couple went in and used the flogging post it was an old friend from tamile's childhood who had her back flogged into a lovely shade of red.  We waited till the Ball got a little busier and then I took tamile into the dungeon.  She loves a good audience the extra people really help to push her over the edge.  As you already readier birthday is in June and we had plans to celebrate.  I had put out the call to several Dom(me)s I know that it was her birthday and she was going to be available for spanks.

I'm not going to go into too much detail about the birthday spanks. tamile covered it well, what I will add is a short list if those who were able to lend a hand (pardon the pun). As she wrote her post I did ask her if she was able name those who had come out, she was close but missed a few.

  • BabydollBBW 
  • The Oberon
  • Smokin_Stiletto
  • naivara (it was her first time ever spanking someone and she was so cute and tentative at it)

There were a few others who had wanted to take part but as tamile pointed out we timed out.  The dungeon is a shared space and we have monopolized a piece of equipment for a little over an hour.  I’m honestly debating inviting a few people over to the house so we can give her a good working over the night before her birthday.

After we were finished and she was unclipped from the bench.  tamile could barely walk, so we got her into a chair and moved to the side to free up the bench.  A little bit of tlc and attention later and I was able to help guide her from the dungeon area and outside to smoke.  The wonderful thing about the dungeon is the feel that goes along with both the audience and other people using devices.  Directly in front of me was a lovely short woman in a cage being touch and felt by men and women like. I could tell she was having a great time.  I had hoped to get a feel for her myself but she was done by the time was able to get back by the dungeon.  Behind me four of sets of Dom(me) and subs were at work on other devices.  There is just something about knowing you are not alone.

The rest of the night was a mix of dancing, visiting, and hanging out with friends new and old.  tamile was in a wonderful mood and heard from several people how much they enjoyed watching.  naivara was having a bit of a rough time, it was her first real Ball. Thankfully a past playmate of hers and mine was on hand and wasn’t in the best head space either.  The two of them were able to entertain each other and spent the better part of an hour making out.

In the end it was a great night for all of us, and I for one look forward to getting more and more involved in our local community.

Monday, June 3, 2013

My Birthday Ball

Posted by tamile.

So this past weekend we went to the Ball.  It was great amount of fun.  After we arrived at the ball and took some time to say hello to everyone we know both new and from when we were part of the community before hand.  We sat down near the dungeon and watched some people being flogged and spanked etc.  My Love and Master, told me i could go up for a cigarette and then i was going to get my birthday spankings.

So When i got back downstairs the usual bench that we like to use was occupied so we moved to a different one. i was a bit nervous as i knew that this was going to be a special birthday spanking as Master had arranged to have multiple people spank me.  I was a little nervous as normally at the Ball only Master and Master Brian spank me.

Master started the evening and warming me up with his hands and wearing gloves and the paddle, it felt wonderful and soon i was entering sub space and just floating on the feelings. i must admit i am not sure of all who spanked me (Master says he will edit to add who it actually was) but i do know that i was feeling wonderful.  In the end we actually were timed out of the dungeon.  i did not think that we were in there that long but it ends up that we were in there for close to an hour and a half.

Afterwards many people approached both Master and i and said how much they appreciated the show and watching me get my birthday spanks.

For me it was a great ball and i look forward to going back again and again and again.  Now if only it could be my birthday every time.